Monday 2 February 2015

Unsung Hero's


My son has undergone surgery and our recent stay in hospital was an inspiring one. Our first visitor was my nephew. It was strange to see him all in blue with stethoscope hanging around his neck, as this was not the image we were use to. I felt immensely proud and blessed that he was around to give us moral support and company in between his own shifts. I witnessed his compassion and mercy towards all he met. It is wonderful to see him thriving in his work as a doctor, may Allah grant him success always. Ameen.

We had the privilege to spend time with the nurse who looked after my son for the whole duration we were there. Apart from finding my son hilariously funny she was so patient with him and gave him so much motivation which as they say is half of the healing. 

What was inspiring was watching how both of them worked tirelessly. Shifts of over 12 hours to ensure patient care and needs were met. I know so many that would say how the National Health Service is abominable but I could not imagine life without one. It is stretched beyond belief, staff is in shortage and they are simply not paid enough for the work they do. They really are phenomenal and deserve much more credit than what they are given. 

Being on a specialist ward we shared the space with children that have extreme needs but we also met the unsung hero's; parents and carers that spent day and night looking after them. These people who have given up their own lives to be full time carers for their children or in some cases grandchildren. Over the years I have had the honour to be around individuals that are, and have been taking full time care of their parents, children, spouses and siblings. I have witnessed how their faith has been unshakable, irrespective of how arduous it may have become. Though they tire and their smiles grow thin they continue, as giving up is not an option.

On reflection when we seem to be living in a world where many have become self obsessed it was amazing to be around so many selfless individuals and a reminder that the true hero's are those that give to others. Alhamdulillah (All praise be to Allah)

May we remain selfless in helping others always, and selfish in attaining good for our akhirah (afterlife). Ameen.